Who Decides? The Ultimate Guide to Guardianship in Malaysia
By - Jeremy G

When parents nominate different guardians in their wills, the result isn’t always straightforward.
Disputes can arise, leaving decisions in the hands of the courts.
With careful planning, however, you can avoid conflict and safeguard your child’s well-being.
Here’s how guardianship decisions work in Malaysia and what you can do to plan effectively.
What Happens When Guardianship Is Disputed?
If parents name different guardians in their wills, courts step in to decide custody based on the child’s welfare.
Here’s how this process works for Muslims and non-Muslims:
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1. Legal Framework
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Non-Muslims: The Guardianship of Infants Act 1961 (GIA) gives courts the authority to appoint or confirm guardians. The guiding principle is always the child’s welfare.
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Muslims: Custody (hadhanah) and guardianship decisions follow Syariah law, which considers Islamic principles alongside the child’s welfare.
2. What Courts Consider
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Best Interests of the Child: Emotional and physical well-being, continuity of care, and a stable home environment are prioritised.
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Child’s Wishes: Older children’s preferences may be considered if they are mature enough to make a reasoned choice.
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Suitability of Guardians: Financial stability, emotional readiness, and family support are key factors.
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Sibling Unity: Courts aim to keep siblings together unless separation is better for their welfare.
While the court reviews nominations in both wills, these are not binding if they conflict with the child’s welfare.

What Happens If No Guardian Is Named?
If no guardian is nominated in the will:
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Non-Muslims: The court appoints a guardian based on the GIA, prioritising close family members such as grandparents, siblings, or other relatives.
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Muslims: Syariah courts decide, guided by Islamic principles and the child’s welfare.
Leaving guardianship decisions to the court can create unnecessary stress for the family and delay the process, highlighting the importance of clear planning.
How to Avoid Guardianship Disputes
To safeguard your children’s well-being and avoid conflicts:
1. Collaborate on Guardian Nominations
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Align Choices: Discuss and agree on a single guardian with your partner. This reduces the likelihood of disputes.
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Inform Family Members: Let close relatives know about your decision to prevent misunderstandings.
2. Nominate Backup Guardians
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Plan for Contingencies: Include alternate guardians in case your first choice is unable or unwilling to serve.
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Ensure Compatibility: Choose backups who share your values and parenting approach.
3. Notify Guardians in Advance
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Seek Consent: Confirm that your chosen guardians are willing and prepared to take on the role.
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Provide Guidance: Share key documents, such as your will and any supporting instructions, to help them understand your expectations.

Why Planning Ahead Matters
Custody disputes can be emotionally draining and delay crucial decisions during a difficult time.
With careful planning, you can minimise conflict and ensure your children are cared for as you intended.
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